What My Angels Want You to Know About Love

When I sit in silence with my angels and guides, I ask them often about love—why it’s so hard for so many, why it feels like some people wait forever, and why even the kindest hearts often end up alone.

And they always remind me:

“No one is unworthy of love. But many are still blocked from receiving the kind their soul is truly asking for.”

So I wanted to share with you what they’ve shown me—again and again—in my psychic readings.

These are the deeper reasons your soulmate may not have arrived yet.
They are gentle reasons. Sacred reasons.
And the moment you hear them, something inside you may begin to shift.

You’re Still Carrying Someone Else’s Definition of Love

My guides have shown me that many people are unknowingly living out someone else’s story of what love should look like—stories inherited from parents, exes, or even collective beliefs.

But the love your soul came here to experience is likely something more tender, more spiritual, more grounded than the old patterns you’ve been trying to repeat.

Your guides want you to know:
“You are allowed to want something softer. Something truer. Something that doesn’t hurt.”

Let go of the version of love that was never yours to begin with.

You’ve Been Giving More Than You’ve Been Receiving

My angels often show me the image of people pouring water into everyone else’s cup—while their own is bone dry.

If you’ve been loving, nurturing, understanding, and endlessly patient with others… but you rarely feel that same care returned, this may be the block.

Love cannot flow in when your energy is only moving outward.
Your guides want you to remember:
“Receiving is not selfish. It is sacred.”
You deserve to be held. Nourished. Loved the way you love others.

The Love You’re Aligned With Now Isn’t the Love You Once Asked For

This is one of the most beautiful truths my angels have shared:

Sometimes love hasn’t arrived because you’ve outgrown the version you used to want.

You’re not in the same place emotionally or spiritually.
The old dreams don’t fit the new you.

Your angels want to gently say:
“You are not behind. You are evolving. And love is simply catching up to meet the person you’ve become.”

You’ve Been Trying to Be Chosen, Instead of Fully Seen

This message always comes through with so much tenderness.

You’ve done so much work to be “enough.”
You’ve healed. You’ve grown. You’ve shown up.

But love isn’t about being impressive.
The person meant for you doesn’t need convincing.
They need connection.

Your guides say:
“Stop trying to be lovable. Start being visible.”
Let yourself be seen for who you really are. That’s when love will recognize you.

A Message That Shifted Everything For Ava

I remember a woman named Ava who came to me feeling completely drained from dating. She told me, “It always feels like I’m the one trying harder. Always waiting. Always hoping.”

During her psychic reading, her guides showed me something powerful:

A piece of her spirit had frozen years ago when a past love left without closure. Since then, she had been attracting people who mirrored that same emotional absence.

We did deep energetic work to call back that frozen part of her heart. Her guides also gave her a new vision—a specific emotional imprint of what the right love would feel like when it arrived.

Three weeks later, she messaged me and said,
“I met someone and for the first time… I didn’t feel the need to chase. I didn’t have to pretend. I felt safe, understood… and for once, it actually feels real”

Her story still brings tears to my eyes, because it was never about “finding” love—it was about allowing herself to finally receive it.

If you’ve been wondering what’s wrong with you, please stop because…

There is nothing wrong with you.
Your guides are not disappointed in you.
Your angels are not withholding anything from you.

They are simply waiting for you to open the space—for the right kind of love to finally arrive.

And if this message feels like it was meant for you… it probably was.

Take a breath. Reread the part that speaks to you. And know that when the time feels right, your guides—and mine—will help bring the clarity you’ve been searching for. If you’d like my help with that, click here to schedule your psychic reading.

With all my heart,

Tana 💗

www.TanaHoy.com
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