Astrological Sexual Compatibility: Sizzle and Fizzle Relationships – Part 1 astrological sexual compatibility

Your astrological sexual compatibility has a lot to do with making your relationship sizzle, instead of fizzle.

Astrological sexual compatibility may not be the first thing on your mind when you strike up a relationship with someone. However, when you and your loved one know your sexual compatibility based on zodiac signs, it’s simpler to plan how to make your relationship sizzle, instead of fizzle.

What Makes Relationships Sizzle


Romance is possibly the biggest factor as far as making a relationship sizzle is concerned. However, there are other factors to consider too. These include wealth, power and influence, looks and charm, and of course, sex.

Looks are genetic, and unless one undergoes surgery, a person is on a “take it as it is” basis. You can learn to be charming, but not all people are successful at this all the time. Wealth, power, and influence are either part of one’s life upon birth, or they are acquired over time, usually through a combination of determination and luck.

That leaves romance and sex. Romance includes being a great companion, being trustworthy, and being loving, as well.

What about sex? Well, it’s a natural part of life, but not all sex or lovemaking is the same.

Some acts of sex are truly inspired, which makes it passionate for both partners. Some are just so-so, or even boring.

Instead of a passionate sizzle, you get a disappointing fizzle.

The great news is, a fizzling relationship doesn’t even have to happen.

That’s because from an astrological viewpoint, you need to understand how the stars play a huge role in sexual compatibility.  In the same way that there are sun signs that attract and/or repel each other in matters of love, there is also such a thing as astrological sexual compatibility.

Understanding the zodiac signs, when it comes to sexuality, will help you in evaluating a prospective relationship, or in learning new ways to make your relationship hot and exciting.

Aries – the Energetic Sexual Partner

If fun and games are what you seek when it comes to sexual relationships, Aries is ideal for you.

Aries wants things to be lively, and is not so much into prolonged courtship rituals when you’re alone with him/her. That’s not to say that Aries is an insensitive, self-centered, and crude person. It’s just that Aries does not like prolonged foreplay, seeing it as a waste of time.

After all, if you’re really into him/her, then why go through unnecessary moves? Make it passionate and make it real, now. That’s how Aries sexuality expresses itself.

As far as sexual compatibility based on zodiac signs is concerned, Aries can be most happy sexually with Aquarius, Sagittarius, Leo, and Gemini.

Hot tip: Stay away from routine! Scheduling fixed days for lovemaking is a major deal buster for Aries.

Taurus – Romance and Sexuality in One Package romance and sex go together

Romance and passion are great partners in the making of terrific relationships.

Do you still enjoy flirting with each other even though the two of you are already in a relationship? If yes, chances are either you’re a Taurus, or you’re with a sexy and romantic Taurus partner.

Taurus associates the finer things of romance such as wining and dining, as preparatory steps to passionate lovemaking.

Taurus is the complete opposite of Aries when it comes to sex. Taurus enjoys the thrill of the chase, and responds passionately when fully excited by romantic rituals.

For astrological sexual compatibility, the best matches for a Taurus would be Capricorn, Pisces, Scorpio, Virgo, and Cancer.

Hot tip: Clean, soft sheets… dim lights… soft romantic music… and a flower or two… these draw Taurus in like a bee to honey.

Gemini – Mind First, Body Next

Nothing will put Gemini in a hot mood more than being intellectually stimulated. If you want to hit it right with Gemini, make sure you have a working knowledge of his/her interests, and are able to converse about it with your Gemini.

If your Gemini is into classic rock music, for example, it won’t be enough to learn to appreciate the music of classic rock icons such as Led Zeppelin or Queen. You’d need to be able to talk about the meaning of his/her favorite songs, and express your opinions on what you believe each song means, and maybe even how the song was able to make a social or cultural impact.

If that sounds heavy, that’s Gemini for you. The way to get him/her ready for a sizzling time is to make his/her mind sizzle first. Then, the physical aspect follows without a hitch.

Sexual compatibility based on zodiac signs makes Sagittarius, Libra, Leo, Aquarius, and sometimes, Aries, good partners for Gemini.

Hot tip: Do your best to keep his mind engaged while you’re together, before making love. Keep your voice as tender and inviting as possible.

Cancer – Security is the Biggest Turn-on

For a Cancer, matters of the heart exert a great influence on matters of sexuality. Home and family oriented, Cancer may be initially hesitant about expressing passion.

But that’s only because at the back of his/her mind, Cancer is weighing any risks or threats that may be associated with getting into a relationship with you. If you make Cancer feel secure, meaning your Cancer senses you will not drop him or her like a hot potato after a night of passionate lovemaking, then all will go well for you.

As far as astrological sexual compatibility goes, Cancer will be delighted to have Capricorn, Virgo, Pisces, Taurus, and Scorpio, as romantic and sexual partners.

Hot tip: Keep the fire sizzling with Cancer by making plans about the future. Otherwise, if you’re simply looking for a one-night stand, steer clear. You’ll both become hurt and regret it.

Leo – Drama and Passion Make for Great Action

For a Leo, “all the world’s a stage” and Leo is the star.

Just like the big cat that he/she is, Leo responds well to being pleased by soft, butterfly kisses and being gently stroked.

Leo can be affectionate in bed, but only after his/her deep desires to feel important, to be admired, or to be at the center of your attention, has been fulfilled.

Owing to Leo’s “love me, please me, tell me I’m great” personality, your Leo may seem to be too self-centered for comfort, but this is not usually the case. A Leo simply wants to feel validated. Leo equates love and sexuality with surrender, and this can only happen if you make him/her feel appreciated to a great degree.

Sexual compatibility based on zodiac signs makes Libra, Aries, Aquarius, Gemini, and Sagittarius, ideal for Leo.

Hot tip: Never, ever tease a Leo about his/her performance in bed unless you want your relationship or encounter to fizzle out suddenly.

Virgo – Touched for the Very First Time

The lyricist of Madonna’s song “Like a Virgin”© may have been describing a Virgo and how a Virgo feels and approaches love and sex.

Even though your encounter with a Virgo may not be his/her first, you can expect a great deal of purity in loving, and yes, even some innocence, that eventually turns into passion.

Typically, a Virgo does not like to waste time on uncertain relationships. Casual flings, one-night stands, or sex based purely on physical attraction will not be pleasing to a Virgo.

Love and sex are often intertwined in a Virgo’s life. If you love a Virgo, make sure you’re in it for the long haul.

For astrological sexual compatibility, the best choices for Virgo would be Pisces,Cancer, Taurus, Capricorn, and Scorpio.

Hot tip: If you are patient, you can gently motivate Virgo to step out his/her comfort zone. Trying out exciting moves can be acceptable to Virgo, but you have to gain Virgo’s trust first.

Did you like this article on zodiac sexual compatibility signs for Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, and Virgo? There’s a second part coming next, and it will tackle the astrological sexual compatibility of Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces.

If you’d like to find out more about your compatibility with your loved one, or your chances of ending up together with someone you care about, you can get the answers from me during a psychic reading.

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5 Responses

  1. janice arandelovic says:

    yup i enjoyed it. im still heartbroken over Trevor. you should never tease anyone in bed, validated yes everyone wants to feel loved needed and accepted.

  2. allen says:

    i see you are using the sun signs for this article, but the moon sign and the rising sign, also has it share of information, taken together, really helps two people, form a partnership? is this right tana? thank you so much, for all these pieces of information, that helps all of us grow!

  3. R says:

    I’m a Virgo and very compatible indeed with a Pisces – romantically, passionately, sexually.

  4. Irma says:

    I’m an Aquarius and have dated 2 Aries men with same birthdays! At different times of course. One was a bore, yawn! No skills or endurance. The other, well, hands down best lover. Endurance was amazing from 1- several hours. Just about every day! I couldn’t get enough. This was my soulmate but things happen. This article for me is not accurate. Still a good read.

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