The Most Painful Thing In Love To Avoid (Read this for sure!)

I have talked before about why it is hard to get over a breakup with someone you love, even when it has been months, or even years since it ended.

As you may already know, that answer has to do with the past lives you may have had with that person.

Another common theme that is often related to past life karma is one of the most difficult, and painful things a person can experience in a relationship, and that is – infidelity! Physical, as well as emotional!

Infidelity – An Emotional Death

Being in a relationship with someone, and then finding out they cheated, or are cheating on you, is one of the most emotionally painful things a person can experience in love – next to losing their loved one through death!

And infidelity doesn’t always require a physical act to take place. Emotional infidelity, falling in love with someone and having an emotional affair with them, can be just as painful.

Because when a person cheats on you, you will experience a kind of “emotional death” inside. This is

where you go numb inside, almost into a state of emotional shock, where you can’t feel anything for


After the shock subsides, then comes the pain. This is the same emotional process a person experiences when someone they love dies.

So what causes someone to cheat?

Why People Cheat

Cheating can be a result of several things. The reason a person often cheats is because the cheating partner feels emotionally disconnected from their partner.

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Often times, when kids are involved, the unhappy person thinks it better to get their emotional needs met outside the relationship, in secret, so as not to hurt the kids.

In the mind of the unfaithful partner, this type of infidelity isn’t meant to hurt anyone, but is a way of getting their needs met, without hurting the kids.

Other Reasons A Partner Cheats

There are also partners who are unfaithful due to drug use, or alcohol use, that impairs their ability to make good decisions. So they end up cheating when high or drunk!

Then there are people who cheat because they would rather cheat, than hurt their partner’s feelings by ending the relationship.

There are several reasons for infidelity, and though they seem logical in the mind of the person who is cheating, they don’t seem logical to the person being cheated on.

Cheating, Your Past Lives, And Akashic Records

Regardless of the many reasons a person experiences infidelity, it all comes down to karma and past lives.

Because the people you meet and love are people you have loved in a past life, the two of you come together again in this life, to continue the love you had in your past lives.

Depending on what you did or didn’t do in your past lives together, will determine the love experiences you have in this life together.

Why Infidelity Is Due To Karma

Infidelity is related to past lives, and karma. Usually when you experiences infidelity, it is because in one of your past lives, you were unfaithful to that person.

So karma rears it’s head, causing you to experience what you did to that person in a time long ago.

There could be other karmic explanations besides you having ben unfaithful to that person in a past life.

But the only way to break the cycle of infidelity, so that you don’t keep experiencing it in your relationships, is to find the root cause of it.

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Finding The Root Cause Of Unfaithfulness

The root cause is found in your Akashic Records, which are ethereal records that have recorded in them, everything about all of your past lives.

When I read a clients Akashic Records, I am able to tell them exactly where (in what lifetime) the infidelity started, why it started, and more importantly – how to stop it or prevent it from happening

to you again in the future!!

Knowing the root cause of any problem in your life gives you the power to eliminate it, or change it, so that it doesn’t keep repeating itself over and over again!

Why Infidelity Is Like A Weed

I have found that infidelity is like a weed, until the root is removed, it keeps popping up. either in the same relationship, or in future ones.

When I read a person’s Akashic Records, I am often amazed, because the answers to why the person’s partner cheated on them is clearly revealed in their records!

And once I read the person’s akashic Records, or the Akashic Records of the cheating person, (I can actually read the Akashic Records of a person who is not present for the reading by knowing their name) the cycle of infidelity can be stopped by using different cosmic techniques that are unique to each person who’s records I read.

Helping a person stop the karmic cycle of infidelity in their lives is one of the greatest joys I experience as a psychic!

I hope you found this insightful and that it helped make the spiritual causes of infidelity a little bit clearer to you.

In light and peace,

Tana Hoy

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9 Responses

  1. Sam B says:

    I’ve got an worse story than just cheating. What if you dated someone for a total of six months, they cheat not once, but twice! But the second time they leave they turn around and say “the relationship wasn’t real.” Cheating is huge, but lacking respect is far bigger. Its one thing to say they left you for someone else, its another to say they apparently never even cared. In my instance, the woman who cheated was either making excuses, saying it because she doesn’t want her current boyfriend from knowing, can’t face the reality of her actions so formed a visualization of what she apparently now believes its truth, or actually meant it.

    I have thought about exposing her to her current boyfriend but would be N act of revenge which ill get into later, but more so would contradict my original goal. All I wanted to do was make her happy, which apparently had been achieved through someone else but at my expense. I don’t even think she realizes the significance of her actions, nor that she apparently cared. However she said (in her words): “I wanna make up for acting like a total bitch.” Again, her words, yet she still doesn’t understand her actions’ implications. She says she’s happy now and that her current boyfriend is her “dream man” though she said this with every guy she was with. However, if this was true, she may have found one of her soulmates but through underhanded means. I’d probably say “she doesn’t deserve it” but 1. As far as I know, she only cheated on me. 2. To say that is only a form of vengeful thinking (more on that later). 3. I don’t believe anyone “deserves”, there just “is”. This does not mean they don’t deserve either however.

    Saying someone does or doesn’t deserve something is categorizing their actions. Punishment and reward is primarily a human concept, a way if thinking. This will be explained as it ties in to my next statement.

    I gave up with the concept of karma as it only really resembles a revengeful mindset. There was also a quote that made me realize this. “There is no justice, only revenge.” Pretty straight forward to my point.

    If you think about it, who’s usually the one carrying out the karmic act upon you? Usually the person you’ve wronged. I just see that as a form of payback, not a form of “justice” as the quote puts it. Justice is really just a vengeful act on someone who’s done wrong at its core. Someone robs you? Put ’em in jail! Id probably say “because they committed a negative act against you, they need to be taught a lesson” but its the wrong kind of lesson and that’s the exact mindset you should be avoiding

    Here’s the best part. When the person you’ve wronged recycles that karma back to you, they have themselves now committed a negative act so now they have a negative karmic “debt” and the cycle continues.

    Karma is supposed to be a cosmic policing strategy but its really a guise of vengeful thinking. It only exists because people want satisfaction that deeds are meaningful. Not in the form of rewards for good actions, punishment for bad ones.

  2. Sam B says:

    Before its brought up about good karma, the same applies here. The revenge rule is only under the deserving rule is how I see it. People believe others deserve compensation for their actions, positive or negative.

    If you deeply think about it, why do we deserve compensation for our actions? Why does existence i incarnate enforce this rule? To bring balance right? Source doesn’t recognize “positive” or “negative”, only we do.

  3. Sam B says:

    Ibshould also rephrase that ladt pat to “right” and “wrong.”

    Sorry, I’m done now.

  4. Tina Z says:

    My condolences to Ssm B..Thats a heartbreaking story….I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers…. as for Tana I love your site and I thank you very much for your “AWESOMENESS”….!!!!! luv ya

  5. Laina M. says:

    When you have truly invested in the I AM statement and you have and live in the 5th Dimension, their is no Karma. I AM that I AM and I AM SELF LOVE and I AM the Creator of Me and My Universe. It is a persons choice to be in a relationship with someone who is on a lower energy vibration that themselves. If you have released the old paradigm beliefs the NEW owns will take hold and their is NO cheating.

  6. Candy says:

    Very interesting thank you 🙂 ?

  7. christine says:

    what about curses that can also alter past karma like my soulmate and i are targeted by an outside evil force of a naracissist in my soulmate life and family intervention which keeps us apart

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