Psychic Causes of Common Relationship Problems and How to Solve Them

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Why it is that not all couples experience the same quantity and quality of love problems? Are the reasons psychic in nature?

At one time or the other, every couple that has ever loved has experienced a relationship problem.  Have you ever wondered why some couples experience more problems than others? More often than not, there are psychic causes behind common relationship problems.

In this article, I’m presenting 3 of those causes, and at the end of each cause, I’ll suggest how you can solve the relationship problems described.

Insecurity and Low Self-Esteem


When you have low self-esteem, it’s a given that you will also have insecurities.

Couples in loving relationships understand the important role that healthy self-esteem plays in building a relationship.

When you have low self-esteem, it’s a given that you will also have insecurities. This includes the gnawing fear inside you that you are not worthy enough to be loved.

As you struggle with that fear, the more it will eat you up.  You become suspicious and jealous, projecting your fears of being abandoned onto your partner.  Your reaction to such fears is to hold on tighter and tighter, until your partner feels suffocated and starts thinking of leaving.

Not everyone in the world has a healthy dose of self-esteem. The kind of environment that you grow up in, your experiences with other people while growing up, and the quality of life you have when you start living as an adult, all have an impact on how much or how little self-esteem you have.

More than this, however, is the psychic cause behind these common relationship problems. That psychic cause has to do with reincarnation.

If you often experience relationship problems that are rooted in insecurity and low self-esteem, there are still many lessons that your soul needs to learn.

If you often experience relationship problems that are rooted in insecurity and low self-esteem, there are still many lessons that your soul needs to learn.

Souls reincarnate primarily because they need to learn life lessons. In the example given above, one of the lessons to be learned is the value of learning how to trust. Another lesson is the importance of building up self-confidence and learning how to avoid emotional dependency.

If you often experience relationship problems that are rooted in insecurity and low self-esteem, there are still many lessons that your soul needs to learn.

To find out if this is the case with you, or to understand how far your soul has progressed, and what lessons you need to learn, you can ask for an Akashic Records review during a psychic reading with me.

Your Akashic Records are ethereal records of your every thought, action, and deed, in this life and all of your past lives. Knowing the contents of your Akashic Records can help you to figure out how to handle issues of insecurity and low self-esteem.


Constricting Control Issues


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The inability to deal with the control issues of your partner could be due to blocked Chakras.

The best love partners are more than just a romantic couple. They are also friends. They playfully tease each other, miss each other, support each other in various ways (financially, emotionally, physically, etc.), and respect each other as equally having the same rights and privileges.

This means that love partners who are also friends are cautious about hurting each other. They give each other as much leeway as possible, to be able to let each other enjoy their life and find self-fulfillment.

It’s the reverse when your partner is obsessed about being the controlling factor. When this is the case, the one with a desire to control imposes too many rules and restrictions on the other.

Your movements are monitored. You are always expected to be home at a certain time; if not, you will be questioned repeatedly.

Your choice of clothes and spending habits are also monitored and controlled.

Your choice of friends and other relationships outside of your romantic partnership will also be limited to those your partner approves of.

The strange thing is, even when these restrictions are imposed on you, you learn to put up with the constricted feelings created by the restrictions, and can become depressed as a result.

You may also experience physical problems such as allergies that suddenly show up and don’t go away, gastro-intestinal tract issues, pain in your jaw because of clenching, migraines, and cardio-respiratory issues. By paying close attention, you will notice that these symptoms arise whenever you and your partner have a disagreement involving freedom and control.

If this is what is happening in your relationship, you are under considerable stress, and that can lead to blocked Chakras.

Chakras are channels and receptors of the psychic energy. When your Chakras are blocked, you feel weak, not only physically, but also emotionally. This is why you can’t exert the effort to assert yourself in a controlling relationship.

Your ability to think straight is also compromised by blocked Chakras, which is the reason you keep on finding one justification after the other about the negative treatment you are receiving from your partner.For example, you might keep saying to yourself “My partner is just trying to protect me.” Or, “I cannot find someone else who loves me as much as my partner does, so I will stay, even if it hurts.”

You can find out if your Chakras are blocked during a psychic reading with me.

If this is the case, I’ll teach you how to clear or balance your Chakras during your psychic reading,so that you will be able to cultivate a healthy love for yourself, and learn to stand up for your rights.

Cheating and Broken Promises


Some of my clients have told me they are always attracted to “bad girls” or “bad boys”, and  they still can’t figure out how to avoid falling for the same kind of personality in their next relationship.

These “bad types”are usually partners who are unfaithful, or who keep on breaking the promises they make.

karmic debt

If you keep on making the same love choices that end up badly, it could be because of your Karmic debt.

If this is true with you, you may have asked yourself repeatedly why you keep on making the wrong love choices.

The answer could be found in the extent and depth of your Karmic debt.

Karmic debt is what you acquire because of wrong thoughts, wrong actions, and wrong decisions that you have made in a past life.

Also known as negative Karma, Karmic debt is what keeps you getting attached to the “wrong kind of person.”  As explained earlier, your soul reincarnates when it has lessons to learn.

Unfulfilled or unlearned lessons in a past life accumulate, resulting in Karmic debt. One of the best indicators that you have Karmic debt to settle is when you keep on entering into a romantic relationship with a partner whose personality type has already hurt you before. In this case, you still haven’t learned your karmic lessons, and this is why it keeps coming back at you.

Don’t despair though, because Karmic debt can be resolved or settled. To get help with Karmic debt balancing, which can be done during your psychic reading, get in touch with me now.

Did you enjoy reading this article? Would you like to know about other psychic causes of common relationship problems, and how you can solve them? Let me know in the Comments below!


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2 Responses

  1. Pamela says:

    Hi Tana,

    Is it possible that you can be truly inlove with two different people? The feeling that even though you are not in a relationship with any of them but you love them and want the best for both of them. Is this a bad thing? Does this have to do with karma from past lives?

    • Tana Hoy says:

      It is related to past lives, and very possible to love two people at once. I would suggest having an Akashic Records reading so I can tell you exactly what your past life connections were. Thanks for the comment and questions!

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