The 10 Early Warning Signs Of A Relationship That’s About To End (Part 1)
“Why is love so hard?” I hear this quite a lot from people who consult me about their failing or troubled relationships, during some of the psychic readings that I do.
Actually, it isn’t love or loving that is hard, but how we react to the pain of experiencing loss or disappointment.
This is not surprising, considering how we are all spirits who are simply having a human existence. For some of us, having to cope with the rawness of human emotions is a very difficult thing to do.
Love – from a Psychic Perspective
Souls who live in the Spirit World regard and experience emotions much differently, compared to the souls who are experiencing life as a human being on the Earth Plane.
Souls who live in the Spirit World are shielded from negativity. They are bathed in the energies of kindness, love, and compassion.
In contrast, Souls who are experiencing life on the Earth Plane and learning what it is to be human, still experience kindness, love, and compassion, but on this Earth Plane, there are also the opposing emotions of cruelty, apathy, and bitterness to deal with. And that is what makes life hard, sometimes.
Love – from a Human Perspective
For example, losing a loved one because of a break-up is one of the most painful things that anyone can ever experience.
Race, age, beliefs, gender, or sexual orientation – none of these are exempt when it comes to being hurt because of a relationship gone bad. Anyone, anywhere, who has ever loved and lost, has experienced deep hurt.
Severe emotional hurt can be crippling. It can lead to mental imbalance, depression, and even suicide.
That’s why it’s important to be able to recognize the 5 early warning signs of a relationship that’s about to end, so that you can be prepared.
Keep these signs in mind, because as the saying goes, “prevention is better than cure.”
Sign # 1
You hardly talk with each other anymore, and when you do, stress constricts you like a tight straitjacket. You may or may not argue, but even in the silence, you still feel like there’s a raging argument going on inside.
Sign # 2
Little affectionate acts that you both used to delight in are now avoided, both publicly and privately. Some people are naturally uneasy about PDAs. If you used to do public displays of affection during the courtship stage, but gradually stopped when you became an item, that’s understandable.
However, not being affectionate towards each other even when it’s just the two of you, is something else. Private dislike or displeasure over small affectionate gestures is a warning sign.
Sign # 3
You don’t enjoy the same things anymore. Shared interests help to cement human love and make it stronger. When you start thinking that your partner’s interests which also used to be your interests, are now childish or silly, watch out. You’re falling out of love.
Sign # 4
You often imagine what your life would be like if the two of you broke up. Thoughts are very strong forms of energy. What you think about often is usually what you end up believing, and these thoughts usually come true. That’s psychic energy in action. Be careful about what you think of, it could become your reality soon.
Sign # 5
Your partner tries to keep you as isolated as possible. That’s so you won’t think that your relationship is on the rocks. This may sound strange, but someone who’s doing things behind your back, often to the point of betrayal, will do all that’s possible to hide the truth from you.
You’re being isolated so that you won’t get any kind of feedback from your friends or family, regarding the strange condition of the relationship you’re in.
Lessons to be Learned
The first 10 signs presented were given ahead of the rest, because these 5 signs all deal with a common denominator: the capacity of people to inflict hurt on other people.
If you read through the 5 signs again, you’ll notice that the strong, underlying thread that connects them is none other than selfishness.
Selfishness is simply the act of putting one’s self-interest above the interest of others, even above someone who is supposed to be the loved one.
A Soul chooses to experience a human life because there are lessons to learn.
It’s impossible to learn lessons about being patient, being humble, or being forgiving, for example, if in your human life, you don’t go through situations that test your capacity to go beyond yourself and love unconditionally - even in the face of pain.
In my next post, I’ll discuss the rest of the 10 early warning signs of a relationship that’s about to end. You’ll find out why there’s no such thing as a bad relationship, only psychic energy that’s being misused.
If you can’t wait, and want to find out much more, schedule a psychic reading with me today. You’ll find the answers you want to know about your love life and relationships!