How to Stop Making Bad Love Choices
A good number of the people I give psychic readings to have shared their sadness with me about their relationships. The pain they experience is often heart-rending, and the wounds they carry inside are deep, and hard to heal.
Sometimes, one psychic reading is not enough to discover their karmic debts, or to get their spirits aligned with more positivity. A typical question that’s brought up during such sessions is how to make love choices that they will never cry over.
Is this possible? Can you truly make choices in love that you’ll never need to feel sad about, or cry over?
Let’s take a look at some typical situations of love choices that produce bad results.
Choosing A “Bad Boy” Or “Bad Girl”
There are people who are immediately attracted to others who show a different, riskier, and even nonchalant approach to life. These “bad” types clearly show some or all of the following behavior:
- Self-centeredness and/or selfishness
- Short, volatile temper
- Abusiveness (physical, mental, or verbal)
- A strong need to dominate you – always
- Substance addiction or dependency
- Inability to stop self-destructive behaviors such as gambling
- Lack of direction
- Lack of belief in any kind of life, aside from this earthly existence
- Lack of ability to respect authority
Choosing Someone Who Refuses to Acknowledge Commitment
Your love partner may be the epitome of your dreams. He/she may be exactly what you had hoped for in terms of looks, behavior, background, achievements, and everything else that makes your heart beat hard with excitement.
However, if your partner is not committed to you, there’s bound to be big heartaches in your path.
Note that “commitment” doesn’t always have to do strictly with being with you on a one-to-one relationship.
When a person you’re in a relationship with is committed to you, you feel safe and content, because you are certain that you share the same aspirations and values.
At the very least, there is always an openness to work towards achieving harmony between the two of you, instead of simply letting problems fester and slowly destroy your relationship when times get rough.
Choosing to be With a Control Freak
When you choose to be in a relationship with someone who is a “control freak,” you practically sign away your freedom and integrity as a separate individual.
What you undergo as a spiritual being experiencing a human life is personal to you. Your experiences come about as a result of the choices that you made in the spirit world, prior to becoming reborn in this world.
That means your choices and life experiences should flow according to your life plan, if you are to learn your life lessons, and proceed to a higher spiritual level.
But if you choose someone who wants to control every aspect of your life, then you won’t be able to fulfill your mission on earth, because you’ll be blocked at every turn. This can result in a kind of bottomless despair that could end up in disastrous results.
Understanding Your Spirit Script
The only exception, of course, would be if you actually included a “bad boy or girl,” a “control freak,” or someone who does not acknowledge commitment, in your spirit script.
In this case, then there is the risk of you falling into despair because you would have chose to experience life the way that you are doing so now. However, you still have the option of growing and learning in order that you may achieve your life lessons.
But what if it’s not part of your Spirit Script? What if instead, you are getting into the wrong kinds of relationships because of your karmic debts?
The best way to find out whether your love choices are due to your Spirit Script or your karmic debt is to get a Past Life Reading.
A Past Life Reading will help clear up any cobwebs or uncertainties in your mind and set you on the path to finding the love you dream about! Click here to learn more about scheduling a Past Life Reading.
Have you made any love choices that you cried over? How did you manage it?