What To Do If Your Twin Flame Is Dating Someone Else
Finding out that the love of your love is already committed to someone else is the most painful feeling ever. How can you let go of that “twin flame”, whom you’ve experienced a connection unlike anything you’ve ever had in your life before?
Before I tell you how you can deal with this realization, let me touch on the concept of twin flames.
There is so much confusion about what a twin flame is, as opposed to a soulmate because both a soulmate and a twin flame seem similar if you’re talking about having a deeper connection with someone.
What Is A Twin Flame?
Think about what it would be like to meet someone just like you. This person is the perfect reflection of yourself – from your personality traits, down to your likes and dislikes.
This person is what you call your twin flame.
Twin flames come from one soul that was split into two, and when both of these soul-parts reach a higher level of consciousness, by being reincarnated lifetime after lifetime, they will meet again.
When you are lucky enough to meet your twin flame, it’s like looking at yourself in the mirror.
This makes sense because there is essentially two of you – both from the same soul.
From the looks of it, it may seem like this is the ultimate definition of a soulmate.
Soulmates, however, are in a league of their own.
What Is A Soulmate?
A soulmate is someone who is your perfect spiritual match. If your twin flame comes from only one soul, your soulmate is an entirely different soul, who seems to be cut from the same cloth as you.
Simply put, a soulmate will be someone who is connected with you on a more spiritual level. This person is sent to your life to awaken your soul and become a more genuine version of yourself.
A twin flame, on the other hand, is sent to your life to show you who you really are. There is only one twin flame you will ever meet, and the connection you have with this person will be so intense and powerful because you both vibrate the same energies.
Unlike your relationship with a soulmate ,which has a positive impact in your life, a twin flame relationship can sometimes be painful or catastrophic.
Recognizing Your Twin Flame
You know you’ve found your twin flame when you see your other half in another person. When the two of you meet, it’s like a meeting of two energies that come together to form one whole.
You know you have met your twin flame when:
- There is an instant connection
Ever had that feeling when you meet someone for the first time, you just “know”? You have this instant connection because you share the same traits and personalities. You click right away and the connection is instantaneous.
- You feel drawn to them
You can’t explain the intense feeling that draws you to them. You just feel you’ve known this person your whole life.
- There is a strong psychic connection
The deep connection you have with one another allows you to experience the same feelings and emotions. More often than not, you also can feel if the other person is not feeling well or something is going wrong in their life.
- They complete you
When you are with your twin flame, you feel a sense of being complete. You feel that the other person has the other part of you that has been missing all along.
- You feel a change brewing inside of you
As you interact with them, you feel a complete change in the way you think. You feel transformed as you exchange beliefs, ideas, and conversations, with them.
Characteristics of a Twin Flame
Other than signs, there will be other peculiarities that you will experience when you meet your twin flame.
- Appearance: You somewhat resemble each other. Many people will comment that you almost look like one another.
- Birthdate: There is some connection with your birthdates, like you have the same birth month or that your birthday is very close to the birth date of someone related to your twin flame. You may even have the same birthdates, too.
- Life experiences: Twin flames will have some kind of similar childhood experiences or life parallels.
- Synchronicity: You finish each other’s sentences. You just “get” each other, in the sense that you feel the same emotions as your twin flame, such as the same happiness, or physical and emotional pain, as your other half.
- Complete opposites: Twin flames are like yin and yang, and when they come together they form a complete whole. You are exact opposites in some aspects, but similar in so many ways.
Given all these traits, being in a twin flame relationship just might be the best romantic partnership you can get yourself into. The next question to ask is, will your twin flame feel same about you once you’ve met them?
Do Twin Flames Feel The Same About Each Other?
As intense as the connection is between them, twin flames may not always feel the same about each other. This has to do with the vibrations both of them emit.
The one with the higher vibration is more aware or more in sync with the universe. They can pick up signals from the other, feeling what the other is feeling or going through. This is because they are more spiritually ascended than the other, or have a more heightened awareness than their “other half”.
The less spiritually enlightened one of the two, sometimes called the runner twin flame, is not as spiritually enlightened because they don’t share the same vibrations as their other half.
They don’t look at the connection as something that should be celebrated, so they mask their true feelings, which results in having a very mixed up vibration.
In short, having the same feelings for each other may not always happen between twin flames. The only way that the feeling becomes mutual is when both of them have ascended to the same spiritual level or vibrate on the same frequency.
When you’re lucky enough to vibrate on the same level as your twin flame, then you will experience the most powerful connection there is. Coming together, though, may not always be in the cards for you.
What To Do When Your Twin Flame Is Committed To Someone Else
When your twin flame is already committed to someone else, be the spiritually awakened half and know your time and place in their life.
What’s distinct about meeting a twin flame is, it may not come at the right time, so timing can be a problem when you meet your other half.
When you meet your twin flame, they may not feel prepared to come together. Even if the connection they feel with you is strong, too, they may not move an inch to get to the level you’re at.
When your other half is dating someone else, know that this is not the right time for the both of you to come together because your connection with each other has to be strong enough that you are both ready to mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, be able to handle such deep and intense relationship.
You may count years before the two of you become mature enough to experience such a passionate and meaningful connection.
You have to know, however, that even if you are apart, you will never feel separated from each other.
The time for you to come together may eventually happen when specific transformations between the two of you are complete.
Use the time apart to improve yourself, meditate to ward off negative energies,, and make a conscious effort to love yourself more.
This doesn’t mean that you should wait forever until your twin flame is ready to come together with you because you can choose to move on and find your soulmate instead.
You can opt to keep that special feeling for your twin flame in your heart and carry on to find your own happiness.
Developing Your Twin Flame Relationship
If you’re fortunate enough to be in a relationship with your twin flame, know that this may not be the most smooth-sailing partnership.
Such an intense and powerful bond is often filled with chaos and confusion, especially in the initial stages of the relationship.
In order for your twin flame relationship to succeed, you have to let go of your ego and desire for control. Both of you should heal and balance your emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual connection.
When you’ve overcome the stumble blocks in your relationship, you will both then enjoy a union that transforms your individual selves.
A Relationship That Is ‘Written In The Stars’
Whether or not you’re in a twin flame relationship, believe that such powerful connection exists in the universe. When you find your other half, they play a role in your life that gives more meaning to your being.
Believe as well that the universe is so vast that you don’t have to wait around for such a connection to arrive in your life.
You have the option to be happy with anyone you feel a deeper, more spiritual connection with, even if they are not your twin flame.
If you’d like to know if someone you’ve met, or are currently with, is your twin flame, during a psychic reading I can tune into the vibrations of your two souls, and tell you if this is, or was, a true twin flame connection. You can contact me for this special type of reading by clicking here and filling out the form on my Psychic Reading page, or by calling my office at 614-444-6334.
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