How to Live Life After A Divorce
Everyone’s divorce story is different. Some people have been married for decades, while others get divorced within a year or so. Some of these couples have children, and some don’t. Some of them feel relieved to exit the marriage, while others are still heartbroken to this day.
Whatever the circumstances of your divorce, the question is, where do you go from here? How do you move on to the next chapter of your life?
Life after a divorce is tough, but it’s not the worst. You can either be miserable for the rest of your life or choose to move forward with grace and dignity. There’s always a light at the end of the tunnel, and you just need a little work to get there.
What not to do after a divorce
So, it’s done. You just signed the divorce papers, and your marriage is now dissolved. Now what? Do you start to lampoon your ex on social media or immediately hop on the dating train?
No matter what happens, it is best to remain calm and not allow your emotions to take over you. Think rationally before you engage in any kind of activity that could harm you, your ex, or your children. Let off steam and collect your thoughts before doing anything.
Try not to say anything to your ex out of spite. With today’s social media, it’s so easy to express yourself and to spew out thoughts without thinking twice. It’s understandable that your emotions are still raw but talking poorly only makes you look bad. Sure, your ex might be the bad guy but lampooning them serves no purpose but to remind you of the bad times. That’s the opposite of what you want to do, which is to move on with your life.
If you have children, leave them out of the rift between you and your ex. Don’t try and force them to take sides. Your priority now is to be a parent and to love your kids no matter what. Imagine how painful it must be for them to be in the middle, watching all of this go down. It’s best to not influence their decisions and let them make up their own mind.
If you feel like diving straight into the dating pool, try to take it slowly. It’s not a race to see which ex-spouse can find another partner first. It’s totally okay to be single! Getting into another relationship isn’t a quick fix to make you whole again. Take this time to heal and to find yourself again.
Your next chapter awaits
Life keeps going! There is much more to life after a divorce, and there is no better time than now to start loving yourself. Maybe you were lost and couldn’t find the freedom to do what you want while you were still married. Now is the time to live again, take care of yourself, and figure out what is best for the rest of the family.
If you’re still suffering from guilt, anger, or shame, break free! While it may seem impossible to move on from a messy divorce, there is always hope. Toss all negative thinking down the drain and empower yourself to conquer it. You had put your family above yourself for the longest time, and now it’s time to focus on you. You conquered this divorce and now you can conquer anything!
Heal your heart
After going through the grieving process, you are ready to heal your heart and rebuild yourself. While you were married, your identity was tied with your ex-spouse, and now you have the chance to reidentify yourself and experience the best of life.
Here’s how you can start rebuilding yourself through meditation, crystals, and positive affirmations.
Crystals assist greatly in healing your heart. These are the best crystals to use for healing a heartbreak:
1. Rose Quartz is the ultimate Heart Stone that calms, brings harmony, and eases heartache.
2. Sapphire helps you release frustration and depression.
3. Black Onyx helps you with healing sorrows and gives strength and confidence.
To heal yourself, enter a quiet room and start relaxing. Hold your crystal close to your heart, close your eyes, and start meditating. Visualize the pain coming out of you, allowing positive energies to flow in, and affirming to yourself that you can start a new life. Keep reaffirming yourself for as long as you can to fight off negative thoughts and emotions.
When you’re ready, you can start joining social circles and meet other people who have gone through the same journey as you. You can share your past struggles but do it at your own pace. Open your heart and mind to new personalities and people outside your box. Join support groups or get involved in your local community, and who knows, you might meet the next one who will grab your heart!
While your ex might not be your true soulmate, don’t let divorce scar you from moving on and finding the next love of your life. Keep your mind open for meeting new people but remember to take it slow and not plunge in immediately, or else you’ll hurt yourself even more. Ask your Spirit Guides and Guardian Angels for guidance and protect your heart as much as you can while remaining open to love.
Look ahead for better days to come! If you have any children, prioritize them first. While it’s good to live your life again, your children have gone through the same pain during your divorce. Live your life hand in hand with your kids. Learn with them, protect them, and offer them the best support regardless of these hard times.
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