How to Rebuild Trust After You’ve Been Betrayed
Cheating, dishonesty, and betrayal can be brutally painful. As a love psychic, I know people often are unable to look at their partners the same way after they were betrayed.
Trust is the foundation of every relationship, and when it’s broken, you may question the solidarity of your relationship and wonder if you can ever trust your partner again. However, if you believe in your heart that you both can work it out, the rewards can be worth it!
In this article, I will be sharing with you the same love psychic advice I’ve shared with my clients who have gone through infidelity. If you’re lost and going through the same betrayal, here’s how you can rebuild trust and heal your relationship.
Choose To Forgive
In order to really rebuild trust and fix your relationship, ask yourself: Can it still be fixed? Do we still have love for each other? Am I truly happy within the relationship? Is your partner willing to apologize, change, and make things work?
After a betrayal, you have all the right in the world to feel how you feel. However, carrying on like this for too long only amplifies the problem and hurts you even more. Emotional pain is much worse than physical pain, eventually affecting your whole being, mentally, and spiritually.
Learning to forgive is never easy, but to move forward with your life, healing starts with forgiveness. Give yourself all the time you need to process your thoughts and feelings. If you’re truly unhappy with your relationship, choose your own happiness and well-being above everything else. But if your intuition tells you deep inside that your relationship is fixable, it’s best to follow that feeling and try to salvage things.
Talk It Out
Rebuilding trust starts with open and honest conversations. After you’ve forgiven your partner and they say they want to start all over again you’ll need to develop a completely different plan to transform how you communicate with each other. If you’ve been hurt, voice your truth and vent out everything you feel. Your partner should be receptive to what you have to say.
Evaluate where and why things went wrong, and work towards a healthy solution. Perhaps there needs to be more honesty and disclosure in your relationship. If so, set up times where you can have more open conversations. There should no longer be any secrets or hiding things if you truly want your relationship to work.
Give Up Privacy
If your partner truly wants to rebuild your trust, they should prove why they’re worthy of it. They should agree to be an open book and share their every move if necessary, such as text messages, emails, photos, etc. It’s also for the best that they agree to disclose their location at all times during this vulnerable healing period.
This may seem imposing, but if they want to prove the damage from their infidelity and have nothing to hide, they should do it to win you back and give you peace of mind. They shouldn’t have a problem living openly and proving they can be trusted again. Let your partner do the work to prove themselves, but it’s also best that you stay supportive, open, and transparent the same way that they are.
Develop New Rules
Moving forward starts with you both agreeing to set up new ground rules to re-establish a new solid and positive foundation. The first rule, of course, is to never repeat the past offense. Establish new parameters for you to feel safe enough to explore your newly evolving relationship.
Make sure to agree that you won’t weaponize infidelity against your partner whenever future arguments happen. Let it be a lesson to strengthen your relationship, but don’t use it against your partner. If you really want to move on and rebuild trust, put everything to rest, and don’t rehash old scenarios, especially if your partner is doing their best.
Invest Your Time And Energy
So, your partner’s doing all they can to prove themselves and has invested all their time and energy to making your relationship work. You should too! It takes work from both of you to heal and fix your relationship. As they continue to better themselves, work on how you can be a better partner, too. Don’t be impatient because your partner needs all the help they can get, especially if they’re battling inner demons. Trust that they’re getting better, and they should trust you to not give up on them.
If your partner is still struggling, it’s best to have a third party involved, like a love psychic, to give you clarity and guidance on what your best course of action should be. Decide for yourself if you’re in for the long ride. Remember, there’s no quick fix for infidelity but if there’s still love and feelings involved, the rewards of all the hard work will be worth it!
Rebuilding trust takes continuous disclosure and commitment to honesty. Not only will your relationship be healed, but you both will come out stronger than ever!
You deserve a happy and loving relationship! If you need more guidance on how to rebuild trust, Tana Hoy is a love psychic within your reach! Through Tana’s love psychic readings, you will receive the clarity you need to fix your relationship. Schedule a love psychic reading and transform your love life today!
About Psychic Tana Hoy
Tana Hoy is The World’s Foremost Psychic who works with over 350 Spirit Helpers to deliver accurate psychic answers and guidance to clients. He has delivered thousands of confidential psychic readings by phone and psychic online readings. During your psychic readings with Tana, he can help you with anything you need guidance on – love, relationships, money, career, health, family, and your life purpose. With a 93% accuracy rate, Tana is considered the best psychic in the world today and can help you with the answers you need. All of his readings are 100% guaranteed! Get in touch with Tana today and get real psychic results that will change your life for the better!
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