What Does It Mean When Someone I Love Deeply, Leaves Me?
Nearly every person in the world goes through being left behind by someone they love, but it doesn’t make the experience any easier.
One of the things that may be keeping you up at night, is wondering what it means that someone you loved so much left you. When you’re deeply in love and committed to another person, it is a huge blow to realize that he or she doesn’t feel the same way.
So, What Does It Mean?
There are countless reasons why a person would leave a relationship, but a number of these reasons count as the most frequent causes of a relationship’s demise.
One common reason behind a breakup is the realization that the emotional connection of the relationship just isn’t there. Once the rush of passion and infatuation of the early days have faded, your partner may have recognized that the two of you do not share a strong emotional connection, after all. It may have turned out that you have little in common, besides your feelings for each other.
After all, once the passion has cooled in a relationship, what’s left is a different type of love, built on companionship and trust. If the two of you didn’t take the time to build a strong friendship and share experiences, your former lover could feel the need to look for this type of companionship somewhere else.
Another thing that could have prompted your partner’s decision to leave you is if he or she has met or fallen in love with someone else. Third parties are a common reason for breakups, especially when a new relationship usually feels more exciting and promising than a years-old partnership.
If infidelity occurred, it’s even more serious, as it is a serious breach of trust between you and your former partner.
Negativity could also put a strain on any relationship, whether this negativity comes from constant arguments between the two of you, or from one person who’s currently at a dark and difficult time in his or her life.
When the negative emotions and moments in your relationship overtake the positive, the relationship suffers because the negativity can turn you and your partner against each other.
What To Do When Someone You Love Leaves You?
It might seem impossible to get on with your life after a devastating heartbreak, but don’t worry, moving on only takes time and the right perspective.
To help you get started on your journey of healing, here are five steps you can take when you get left behind by someone you love.
1. Take Time To Be Sad
First, don’t begrudge yourself the time to mourn the end of a significant relationship. It’s okay to feel sad and disappointed about losing a loved one and giving up your future together.
When you deny and resist these unpleasant emotions, you keep the feelings bottled up inside you, which makes it even harder to let go of the heartbreak and move on.
Instead, recognize your sadness and accept that you need a little time to say goodbye to your cherished partner.
Every day, acknowledge how you feel and try to go about your daily tasks, as normally and even cheerfully, as possible. As time passes, you’ll notice that the sadness and grief will fade slowly but surely, until you’re finally able to get up without thinking of your former partner’s absence.
Forgiveness is crucial to moving on, so you aren’t burdened with negative feelings, such as resentment, anger, and guilt. As the Law of Attraction states, being consumed by these feelings will only attract more things that continue making you feel the same way.
Some people blame their former partners for the failed relationship, while other people blame themselves. Either way, it’s important to embrace forgiveness with grace and sincerity, especially since relationships are a two-way street and breakups are rarely a black and white case.
To help yourself accept the situation and forgive, try to focus your mind not on the hurt, but on the good things that resulted from this relationship, such as the wonderful memories the two of you shared, and the knowledge that you gained from your time together.
All of the things you learned, including the flaws and the mistakes, can guide you towards creating better and more successful relationships in the future.
3. Allow Support From Other People
Sometimes, you might feel the urge to reach out to your former partner when you’re feeling particularly needy. Seeking comfort in the arms of the person who caused you heartbreak is rarely effective in helping you move on from a failed relationship.
Instead, open your eyes to the other people around you who love and care for you. While it’s good to have a little time and space by yourself to think and reflect, you don’t want to isolate yourself with your pain for very long.
Let your family and friends comfort you during these trying times and help you heal you. Whether it’s talking it out with friends or just spending time with family, being around other people can be a balm to your bruised heart. If you want to discuss your situation more thoroughly with a professional, it could also be helpful to reach out to a therapist or a psychic, for a session or two.
4. Take Thoughtful Action
Once you are more settled and at peace with your thoughts and feelings, start taking action to help you move on with your life.
What you’re going to do next depends entirely on you; it could be as drastic as moving to a different house, or simply signing up for a cooking class to learn how to take better care of yourself.
Married couples need to divide their assets, while those who have children need to figure out a way to make things work.
These are truly the last chapters of your relationship, so make sure that the choices you make are made with a calm and levelheaded mindset. You don’t want to make important decisions while you’re at the height of your emotions, so be patient, and wait until you can think, speak, and act, clearly and rationally.
By taking the time to recover and heal, you can make better choices that set you up for a happier and more fulfilling future.
5. Keep Your Heart Open
Of course, open up your heart to romantic love, even after the hurt and pain your last attempt caused you.
Letting go of the past is already a significant step in the process of opening up your heart, but you also have to work on being ready for a new relationship. This means that it’s essential to let go of resistance in your mind, such as the hesitation to be vulnerable again, or having doubt in being loved as you are right now.
Finally, enjoy your life and shower yourself with love by doing hobbies you enjoy, spending time around loved ones, and doing good things for other people. When you are happy and caring towards yourself, you raise your positive vibrations and you attract people with the same loving vibrations, towards you!
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