How to Be A Good Friend To Others
Everyone wants a good friend, but in some cases, a good friend is hard to find. In today’s world, it is very rare to find one.
It’s like an apple tree. The most beautiful and rarest ones are way up there, and the bad ones are in plain sight and easy to reach. But just like an apple tree, the bad ones easily fall to the ground.
Finding a good friend is like trying to find a soulmate. You want someone who understands you for who you are, someone you can rely on 24/7, and someone who won’t abandon you when things get rough. But how exactly do you find one?
The answer is simple. To find a loyal friend, you must become one yourself! You can’t ensure loyalty from others, but you can definitely ensure it from yourself. If you’re a good friend, you will naturally attract good friends in return.
The true qualities of a good friend
Loyalty is one of the most important qualities a good friend should have. When someone is loyal, you know they’re also reliable. You can trust them with anything, and they will always have your back. Loyalty is what sets your true friends apart from your other circle of friends.
Everyone has their own meaning of loyalty, but if you strive to be a good friend, here are the qualities of one:
- They celebrate your successes
Every achievement you’ve made is also their win. They are never jealous of your success and will in fact, keep pushing you to strive harder. They are genuinely happy for you whenever you achieve something.
- They keep it real
Regardless if you want to hear it or not, they will tell you the truth - and never behind your back. They won’t tell you what you want to hear, but rather what you need to hear. They will tell you when they think you’re wrong and help you correct that wrong.
- They always make up
All friendships have their ups and downs. If you’ve been friends for a long time, fighting or arguing is almost guaranteed, but a true friend will always push their differences aside and come together in the end. Their love transcends all differences.
- They stand by you
If you mess up or something happens to you, they will stand by and defend you during rough times. You will never feel alone since they’re always by your side. Though they may not agree with you, they will always provide emotional support.
- They respect your boundaries
They know you have your own boundaries, and they have their own too. They will stick to their own individual values and beliefs while still being a good friend. If they are unable to be loyal to their own personal needs, then they can’t be loyal in friendships.
- They stay invested in the friendship
Like all relationships, it only works if both parties are willing to put in the effort to make it work. If you and your friend are still making an effort to be in each other’s lives throughout the years, that’s real friendship.
- You can always turn to them
Whenever you have problems or need someone to talk to, you can always count on them. They are the best listeners and can give you the best advice. They offer a shoulder to cry on whenever you need it.
You deserve good friendships!
Making good friends takes effort. If you’ve been having a hard time fostering friendships, consider these tips on how to be a good friend.
1. Show sincerity in everything you do. Don’t pretend to care but be truly genuine.
2. Always be there for them, even in silence, and offer a helping hand whenever they need it.
3. Be a communicator, not an assumer. Don’t just assume what they need, but rather ask them what they need.
4. Make them happy through your presence and actions. Cheer them up during difficult times.
5. Remember your true value and what you have to offer. Don’t fake your identity or try to impress but be real and genuine.
6. Accept them for who they are without conditions. As you also would like to be accepted for who you are. Accept them and all their flaws.
7. Share the truth in your heart. If it comes from a good place and out of love, they will understand.
8. Celebrate their wins as your wins and be there to support their losses.
9. Stay friends despite their choices and don’t abandon them when they’re not always who you want them to be.
10. Help them reach their true potential and become the best version of themselves. Uplift them towards their life purpose.
Trust your intuition
Your intuition is a gift given to you by the Universe. It’s a highly effective tool you can use to decipher good friends from bad friends. If you have uneasy gut feelings about a friend, then it’s possible that they aren’t showing their true colors. There could be something with their presence that reminds you of a bad experience, or traits you need to be wary of.
The same thing can apply to you. If you want to know how to be a good friend, it’s best to cleanse your aura first, so no negativity is traced from you. Follow the next step to clear your aura.
Cleanse your aura
Your aura and all-around presence can dictate how you make others feel, even without saying or doing anything. If you’re sad, depressed, or carry any sort of negativity, you are also sharing that negativity with others. If you have a murky or dark aura, you are repelling others away from you, and your friends will feel it, too!
If you want to be a good friend or have good friends around it’s important to cleanse your aura and rid yourself of any toxicity. Having an unclean aura can also affect your personal health, making you feel drained and unmotivated with everything in life.
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